My grandchildren were stolen and adopted out several years ago. The adoptive family still lives in the same area as my grandchildren’s mother and aunt which is Jackson Co Ga. For a while the female in this family watched my page on facebook and she had her so called friends and family watching it as well. I blocked all of them so she had no access. One day out of the blue my granddaughter friended her mother my daughter and all of our family members. Now we know why it was so the adult female in the house could monitor our pages. That was her first mistake. Yes, Donna Webb I am talking about you.
I kept quiet until the next thing happened. Picture this. A public place, as in a public park – that is used by my oldest daughter and her family for recreation and water fun. Remember this is Jackson Co Ga and there is not much to do in this backward county. It is a beautiful place for the children to go and play in the shoals and for my daughter and her husband to cook out with the family and take the bike out for a spin.
As my daughter is coming out of the public again I repeat public restroom and is headed over to check on their bike, she sees my granddaughter that was bought and sold by Jackson Co DCF. About the same time my granddaughter Shawna sees her. Shawna immediately runs over to the woman who now claims parental ownership of of my granddaughter and then this woman who is responsible for the brainwashing of the girls says to my oldest daughter who is by blood the real family of this child, “Don’t even think about it.”
Now bear in mind that my granddaughter is now in her teens, it isn’t like she is a small child not that it would make any difference. The fact is this, they are all in a public place, Donna is being her usual paranoid self, she hates our family with a passion because she knows what she did was wrong on so many levels.
Anyway back to the incident, Brandy, my daughter looked at Donna as if she had two heads. She said not a word and just turned and walked away because she was not going to speak to Shawna anyway – that took courage because what she wanted to do was tell the woman off.
The point of this rant is this, Donna knows that my girls still live in this county and that my granddaughters will run into both their real mother and their aunt and maybe even their cousins. She also knows that some day the girls will seek out their real family not the cardboard cut out that the county deems “fit.”
I have been fairly quiet on the subject for a while because it upsets the girls mother, however the more I think about it the more it grates on me. This woman along with the help of the county not only stole the children she is still being paid to own them.
She sends the oldest to spy on us to see what we are doing and to see if we are talking about her via facebook then she doesn’t allow her to speak to us in public. Let me see who has the problem here? Who is using who? If she is that unsure of the affections of my granddaughter it sounds like she has a problem.
I unfriend my granddaughter not because I don’t love her, I do with all of my heart, but because I refuse to use a child, unlike Donna, to spy on the real family. The means does not justify the end. I don’t need to spy on someone, if I want to know something I know how to find it out.
That is what these people do not understand, even though I may be over 600 miles away I find out things – I do not need to use a child who is already in turmoil for my ruse.
This is the same woman that changed their names and has done everything in her power to eradicate us from their lives. The girls were named names for a reason- one was an old family name handed down for generations. She stole that from her. But no matter, it has been placed where it can never be stolen again.
What DCF and these people do not understand is that blood outweighs everything else in the big picture. Children want to know where they came from who their real family is, maybe not today and maybe not tomorrow but one day. Then there is the medical history to think about. Donna you will never know what this family suffers from, you will never understand any of the medical history of this family because we will never tell you. Figure it out on your own.
Shawna when you ran to Donna when you saw your Aunt Brandy you hurt her in ways I hope that you never have to experience. Even though by law you carry a name that is not really yours- it is bought- this family will always love you and your sisters. You can take someone out of the clan but you can’t take the clan out of that person. We are a clan- not piece of paper, no judge – no other “family” can take that away.
Donna you can keep the girls away – you can spy on us- you can change their names, do whatever you will, they are and will always be ours.