Obviously This Foster Parent is Clueless!

I got this comment over the weekend from someone who said they were “kinship foster parents” and from her comment she is clueless.”I am a kinship foster parent to 3 children who are relatives. Obviously, the writer has no idea how much it costs to raise children in a safe home with necessities.

The writer is biased and clearly has no idea what (s)he is talking about when she writes, “..could have helped their mother, she could have lived well on 16,000.00 plus in non taxable income.”

The money is for the care of the children.”

Well, here is the rebuttal to obviously unthought out comment:

Her statement “Obviously the writer has no idea how much it costs to raise children in a safe home with necessities”
Obviously she has no clue about me. I raised three children and two grand children as well as my brothers and sisters. I know exactly what it takes. And I also know that if DFCS in Jackson County would give Samantha that 16,000.00 it would go along way in helpin her support her children. The writer of this comment doesn’t realize that housing, utilities,a vehicle, and groceries are considered things for the children. She also stated that her comment would be deleted. Well not it wasn’t – but she should know her facts before she assumes.
In Jackson County 16,000.00 a year can go along way in a county that is very economcilly depressed. She also needs to get her facts about thi writer before she assumes that I don’t know what I am talking about. This is not my first rodeo- As far as being biased. Again she has no idea what she has stated. Facts are facts. What does she think is involved in “Care of the Children?” The basics alone are Food, Clothing and Shelter”. I also know that many foster care providers including kinship foster care providers make a living off the backs of children who have been snatched by DFCS. I have been involved with those people for a very long time, and I was told by a former supervisor of Jackson County DFCS a long time ago that if a child got in the system they never got out. So before the writer of that comment makes comments that wind up with her foot in her mouth she needs to do her homework first.
It is time for the children to be at home with their mother!

About yvonnemason

Background:  The eldest of five children, Yvonne was born May 17, 1951 in Atlanta, Georgia. Raised in East Point, Georgia, she moved to Jackson County, Ga. until 2006 then moved to Port St. Lucie, Florida where she currently makes her home.  Licensed bounty hunter for the state of Georgia. Education:  After a 34 year absence, returned to college in 2004. Graduated with honors in Criminal Justice with an Associate’s degree from Lanier Technical College in 2006. Awards:  Nominated for the prestigious GOAL award in 2005 which encompasses all of the technical colleges. This award is based not only on excellence in academics but also leadership, positive attitude and the willingness to excel in one’s major. Affiliations:  Beta Sigma Phi Sorority  Member of The Florida Writer’s Association – Group Leader for St Lucie County The Dream:  Since learning to write at the age of five, Yvonne has wanted to be an author. She wrote her first novel Stan’s Story beginning in 1974 and completed it in 2006. Publication seemed impossible as rejections grew to 10 years. Determined, she continued adding to the story until her dream came true in 2006. The Inspiration:  Yvonne’s brother Stan has been her inspiration and hero in every facet of her life. He was stricken with Encephalitis at the tender age of nine months. He has defied every roadblock placed in his way and has been the driving force in every one of her accomplishments. He is the one who taught her never to give up The Author: Yvonne is currently the author of several novels, including:  Stan’s Story- the true story of her brother’s accomplishments, it has been compared to the style of Capote, and is currently being rewritten with new information for re-release.  Tangled Minds - a riveting story about a young girl’s bad decision and how it taints everyone’s life around her yet still manages to show that hope is always possible. This novel has been compared to the writing of Steinbeck and is currently being written as a screenplay. This novel will be re-released by Kerlak Publishing in 2009  Brilliant Insanity – released by Kerlak Publishing October 2008  Silent Scream – Released by Lulu.com October 2008- Slated to be made into a movie Yvonne’s Philosophy in Life - “Pay it Forward”: “In this life we all have been helped by others to attain our dreams and goals. We cannot pay it back but what we can do is ‘pay it forward’. It is a simple
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2 Responses to Obviously This Foster Parent is Clueless!

  1. Samantha says:

    Well obviously the Foster Parent has forgotten how hard is to raise children in the ecomony and the way it is these days, i am a mother of 3 and trust me with a good paying job and eveything you need for you and your children it is still hard as hell to raise your kids and yourself. Not to mention when you grow up in a poor county and a middle class family you struggle to make ends meet and still be there for your kids, but comming from a family that was middle class and a broken family, my mom still made sure she had food on the table and a roof over our head and a warm bed to lay our head in. No we weren’t rich and couldn’t have everythiing we wanted but we had everything we needed to survive, but let me say something to the writer of the comment, the money you make off the kids you have in your home is more then any parent with a good paying job could make in a month and thats after paying bills and getting the things that the kids need. And no to mention the money you make don;’t just go to the kids it gose to other things that the kids don’t need, so like the writer said you need to do your homework before you open your mouth and put your foot in it. Because there are soemthings you need to learn and read before asumming. And if you don’t like my comment well i don’t care, cause i didn’t put it on here for you to like, i call it the way i see it.


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